The Blog Project: Why Single People Give the Best Relationship Advice

How come that single people give better relationship advice than people in a relationship? Sometimes, single people give relationship advice to people in a relationship. Why is that the case?


The secret is that singles (not all, though) are DYING for a relationship. They have it in their mind on how they plan to pursue a serious relationship but they just don't have the guts to ask The One (refer to last post). Single people imagine themselves with their imaginary partner. I, for instance, am single and have all these creative ideas for a date. I imagine a date where it's a fairly windy night with lights everywhere, in a carnival or amusement park, we're having a great time while holding hands, etc. It's a very cool idea if you just know about it.


There's this excitement about having a relationship yet singles can't do this "fun dates" because they lack their partner. So whenever people in a relationship ask for advice, the singles incorporate their idea of a relationship to their advice. Actually, advice-giving is a mutual relationship. Both parties benefit in a way though the people in a relationship have the better benefit. People who took the advice receive precious nuggets of wisdom and will get all the credit for creativity. I'm not saying that people in a relationship are less creative but I think they've got a lot of responsibilities to fulfill and they get real serious in life.


On the other hand, the advice-givers gain the fulfillment of helping out. They also get to fulfill their "relationship fantasies" through other people and may have added another successful relationship to the world. Also, they earn the feeling of making someone (or some-two) happy, which is a very great feeling.
So when a relationship/crush dilemma comes along, it's just fine to ask advice but keep in mind that at the end of the day it's you who'll decide if you're going to do it and you'll be the one to face the consequences or the benefits of your actions.


After all, advice is just advice. It's just a bunch of words and letters. You're the one who's supposed to add meaning to it

Entity

In a world of strangers and thoughts
I live in the stiffness of darkness
With a bottle of water and
A slice of bread

Feeling the crisp coldness
Yet dry in my cheeks
As yet my inner body be

Entertaing a crowd of
A jacket that I call bestfriend
And of
A shadow that I call identity

The streetlights shining as
My sunlight in the evening
And the
Candlelight that lasts until morning

With every breath makes a fog
As I master the sound of silence
But with every footstep
Killing the stillness

And as I feel my sense
Is just emptiness
An old friend approached
Embracing me

Providing me the comfort
Life never offered