Wednesday 3 December 2014

Questionably Answering the Unanswerable Question

Why do you like her?

I would rather try proving the String Theory rather than answering that question. How do you even answer this? It just raises more questions. 

A question that is unique to everybody. A question only you can give the answer. A question without any wrong answer but so hard to give one.  Life is full of questions but there's nothing as complex as this. It might take me a lifetime to give an answer yet there are times that I think that it's worth my while.

Love is so dynamic that people look for dynamic answers. It's just so compelling and intense that you are an unstoppable force in finding the answer.

Yet most of us just can't seem to find the right one no matter how much they try.

I've known people who had various partners in their life. Be it just a relationship or having several marriages, they're just not satisfied with what they've got. They thought that they have had the right answer yet it's either not enough or just plain wrong. The answer is just so vital that it may just change your life.

But some of us just stick to their answer for a long time.

Some just think they have the right answer and they know that in time, it will work out. They know that in the end, when it works out, they will be the happiest people on Earth. They posses the patience and time but some, in the end, succumb to depression and loneliness, thinking that they have wasted their time and just chased pavements their whole lives.

I'm one of those people who just wait and see. Waiting if I am right and see if it works out. I can wait, really. But sometimes truth will just slap you hard in the face and make you realize that you're wrong. We need to get over it because if not, we're never going to be happy.

A relationship is not all about sacrifices, it's about being happy.

That's why we don't need to rush these things because even if it breaks your heart to be just friends, if you really care for someone, you'll take the hit. I've learned it the hard way but I'm never giving up. But the all important thing is to never stop trying.

You'll just never know, right?